tis my blog! - diony

hello everyone,
a pleasant day to you…
i just wanna hear what you have to say
about this question….

"do you think i am handsome?"

you may post your comment,
whether positive or negative,
it will be appreciaed much!
thank you for the time and effort.
God bless and more power!

life is beautiful,
so…
lets continue to make it more beautiful…

most people would agree if i say… love is the most important thing in this world. it has been considered to be because it could makes a person happy when he is sad… makes a person strong and never to surrender when he is weak… makes a person live longer when he is about to die… and makes a person soar high when he is about to fall. but do you believe that love is what we make it… just like the old statement that goes this way, "life is what we make it!?"

i have said that love is what we make it because many people fall in love with someone because they have chosen to fall in love with that certain someone. but i must say, many people would disagree simply because what is accepted to a person might not be the same with the other. meaning, each of us has its own identity or kind of thinking… nevertheless, we are the main actor in this stage called life and whatever decision we make will definetely affect our lives in the future.

sometimes or should i say most of the time when we have found the person whom we wanted to be with for the rest of our lives, a new love comes along… a new love that would offer more compared to what we already have… a new love that we would soon realize is much and far better to the person we are loving now… and a new love that might trigger ourselves to leave the present and embrace the new future…

in this kind of situation, we have our choice or choices and sometimes we do and choose the right ones and there are sometimes also that what we have thought would be the best for us will bring misery and boredome. and soon we will ask ourselves, why? why? and another why? and more why’s?

love and life is what we make it…

lovelife is what we make it…

it is YOU and WE who choose, make and decide the lovelife we wanted. and in choosing, making and deciding we sometimes succeed or sometimes fail. nonetheless, whatever the result of what we have chosen, made and decided… we must be ready. we must be accountable to it… because nobody is to be blamed but OURSELVES. isn’t?

but eventhough lovelife is what we make it… i still questioned, why do we need to fall in love with the new ones where in fact there’s already someone who makes our lives worth it to live in? why do we need to choose that somebody who have just came along that might lead us to the realization that we have chosen the wrong moves of our lives. life is really unexplainable so with love… i guess, we are a part of a big chess board and all of these are all but GAMES… so let’s play the game real good this time…

its so nice to love and to be loved. moreover, it is still ourselves who choose, make and decide… if we have chosen not to entertain somebody in our lives anymore because we have already someone besides us, it is our choice…

so be careful!

hello folks! have a pleasant day to all of you! i would just like to take this opportunity to say "thank you" for giving some of your time to visit this site. i just do hope that i have made you feel comfortable, or should i say ~ you have found yourself in those unheard words of mine brought by my imaginations and emotions on a certain time in my life. if you do have some comments or suggestions, dont hesitate to give me a shot - i mean send me a message/s. i will appreciate it much. my sincerest thank you to all of you. God bless! more power! until then…

sadyang napakahiwaga ng buhay! punong-puno ng mga kaaya-aya at kabugtot-bugtot na mga pangyayari… mga pangyayaring inaasahan at di inaasahan sa buhay. minsan akala natin masaya na tayo at kuntento na sa ating buhay… ngunit dumarating tayo sa punto ng ating buhay na ang ginusto pala natin noon ay ayaw na natin ngayon… minsan yung mga bagay na pinangarap natin ay kabaliktaran na ng ating pangarap ngayon… at minsan ang mga taong akala nating makakatulong sa ating pag-ahon ay sya pala ang dahilan kung bakit tyo lugmok sa kahirapan at pasakit sa buhay…

minsan, nagtataka na ako… nagtataka kung bakit maraming mga pangyayari sa buhay natin ang dumarating ng hindi naman natin inaasahan… mga pangyayaring nakapag-papagulo sa pangkasalukuyan nating buhay… at may mga taong nadadamay dahil sa mga pangyayaring hindi naman nating ginustong magyari. at madalas sa atin ang bato ng SISI.

… ang madalas kong tanong, kailan ba nagiging tamang piliin ang TAMA kahit alam nating hindi ito makapagdudulot ng kaligayahan sa ating buhay. o tama bang piliin natin ang MALI ngunit sa pagpili nito ay kaakibat ang kaligayahan pinapangarap o inaasam-asam natin… AKO? sa ngayon, hirap sabihin kung ano ba ang tama… kung ano ba ang dapat piliin… sapagkat hindi pa ako handang mabigong muli, at pakiramdam ko puno ng mga tinik ang aking dinaraanan… ngunit heto ako’t lumalaban pa rin… pinipilit pa ring tumayo khit sa ngayon ay… nasusugatan at nadarapa pa rin pa minsan-minsan. sabi nga nila, walang perpekto…

marahil, sa puntong ito, dapat lang na maging handa ang bawat isa sa mga maaaring mangyari sa ating buhay. dapat yatang matuto at turuan natin ang ating isipan at puso na tanggapin ang mga bagay bagay na dumarating sa ating buhay, be it… favorable or not…

PUSO ba o ISIPAN?

IKAW ang makakasagot sa tanong na ito. sapagkat ikaw mismo ang nakababatid kung ano ba ang TAMA o MALI para sayo. puso nga ba o ang isipan… ‘wag mo nang pahirapan pa ang iyong sarili. ang maipapayo ko lang, yun ay kung nais at kaya mo, maging matatag, ‘wag intindihin ang mga sasabihin ng mga ibang tao, bagkus isipin ang sariling kapakanan, hangga’t hindi ka nakaka apak ng ibang tao… IPAGPATULOY at GAWIN ang makakapagpaLIGAYA sayo… un ang mahalaga… isa lng ang buhay, nasasayo kung gusto mong gawing MASAYA o MALUNGKOT… habang ikaw ay nabubuhay dito sa mundong puno ng MISTERYO!

For you, I wish good health

For you, I wish happiness and peace of mind

For you, I wish success in your personal life

and in your career

For you, I wish the vanishing of hard feelings

among family and friends

For you, I wish laughter and joy

For you, I wish a strong faith to carry you

through the times that are hard

For you, I wish food upon your table

and clothes upon your back

For you, I wish a walk in the forest

For you, I wish friendship, honesty, and

fidelity with your mate

For you, I wish the hug of a child

For you, I wish the morning dew and sunlight

For you, I wish a bubble bath by candlelight

For you, I wish a good cry

For you, I wish the songs of a bird

and a babbling creek

For you, I wish lessons learned so

you will not make the same mistakes over and over

For you, I wish quiet times shared

with the one you love

For you, I wish the innocence of youth

and the wisdom of maturity

For you, I wish the experience of grass

beneath your feet

For you, I wish the receipt of joy in simple matters

For you, I wish the fragrance of a rose

For you, I wish a heart that is at home

For you, I wish dancing by moonlight

For you, I wish the pleasure of fishing

For you, I wish a Mother’s love

For you, I wish a good night’s sleep

For you, I wish the laughter of a child

For you, I wish memories of days gone by

For you, I wish a heart nestled

in acceptance with yourself

For you, I wish dancing eyes and a ready smile

For you, I wish compassion and understanding

For you, I wish the appreciation

of a hard days work

For you, I wish safety at all times

For you, I wish insight

For you, I wish a spring rain

For you, I wish simplicity

For you, I wish a day of rest

but most of all

I wish you love.

remember, i’m always here for you.
to hear your cry,

to stop the tears from running down your face,
to catch you when you fall,

to listen to what you have to say
and i want you to know
that you can trust me with your secrets.

to keep them to me and only me.

that, i will do my best to be the most
trustworthy and understanding friend i can be.

and i will always be there for you.
as long as you remember this through your hard
and happy times,

whether in flesh-blood, or in spirit and mind,
i’ll be there waiting…
waiting to listen to what you have to say.

for that us what a true friend is
amd that’s what i’ll be.

beginning today!

beginning today…
i will no longer worry about yesterday.
it is in the past and the past will never change.
only i can change by choosing to do so.

beginning today…
i will no longer worrry about tomorrow.
tomorrow  will always be there,
waiting for me to make the most of it.
but i cannot make the most of tomorrow
without first making the most of today.

beginning today…
i will look in the mirror and i will see
a person worthy of my respect and admiration.
this capable woman looking back at me
is someone i would like to get to know better.

beginning today…
i will cherish each moment of my life.
i value the gift bestowed upon me
in this world and i will unselfishly share
this gift with others.
i will use this gift to enhance the lives of others.

beginning today…
i will take a moment to step off the beaten path
and to revel in the mysteries i encounter.
i will face challenges placed before me
with courage and determination.
i will overcome the barriers that may hinder
my quest for growth and self-improvement.

beginning today…
i will take life one day at a time,
one step at a time.
discouragement will not be allowed to taint
my positive self-image, my desire to succeed
or my capacity to love.

beginning today…
i walk with renewed faith in human kindness.
regardless of what has gone before,
i believe there is hope
for a brighter and better future.

beginning today…
i will open my mind and my heart.
i will welcome new experiences.
i will meet new people.
i will not expect perfection from myself nor anyone elese,
perfection does not exist in an imperfect world.
rather, i will applaud the attempt
to overcome human foibles.

beginning today…
i am responsible for my own happiness
and i will do things that make me happy…
admire the beautiful wpmders of nature;
listen to my favorite music;
pet a kitten or a puppy;
soak in a bubble bath…
pleasure can be found in the most simple of gestures.

beginning today…
i will learn something new;
i will try something different;
i will savor all the various flavors life has to offer.
i will change what i can and the rest i will let go.
i will strive to become the best me i can possibly be.

BEGINNING TODAY…

Let’s always be
the kind of friends we are today.
Let’s always be there
for each other, no matter what.

Let’s promise to be friends
when we’re eigthy
and have just as much fun then,
as we do now.

Let’s promise to always make time
for each other,
even when we have lots of things
we have to do.

Let’s always share the laughter, tears,
and celebrations of a lifetime…

Let’s be friends forever.

You are such a blessing in my life
It’s good to have you by my side
When the world turn its back on me
You are such a miracle in my life
You’re the dream that comes alive
Everyday you make me so happy

In my life you are the melody
Thoughts of you make me hear a symphony

In my life you are the song
With you around I’ll always be a strong
In my life you give meaning
In my life you keep bringing
Love, hope and happiness
In my life

You are such an angel in my life
You’re my heaven, day and night
Forever you will be my friend, my lover
You’re the sweetest moments in my life
These I have in my heart and mind
You are all the joy I feel inside

Thoughts of you brings out the smile in me
With you is where I always want to be

In my life you are the sun
You’re the reason why our love’s always around
In my life you give meaning
In my life you keep bringing
Love, hope and happiness

In my life you are the song
With you around I’ll always be a strong
In my life you give meaning
In my life you keep bringing
Love, hope and happiness In my life